Dear Nigel On the second anniversary this is just to say thanks for a few things For calling mum in your final hours to explain in detail your situation at home and at work, warts and all, which mum understood and shared with us. For writing to each of us personally to say why you were where you were, and could not go where you wanted and where we wanted you to be For leaving some financial support for your children For joking around in my dreams and making me laugh on new years eve and a few weeks ago when I've not been well For holding no grudges and harbouring no hate for others who hurt you For winning a great new job on your last day with someone who respected you For bringing together an amazing group of people to share pictures and stories about your life For enabling us to cope with not knowing where your remains lie, because we can look back on 50 years of a roller coaster ride in your company and appreciate what you really left us with. A good heart, a giving nature and a great memory.